Sylvie Tissot, Gayfriendly. Acceptation et contrôle de l’homosexualité à Paris et à New York

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This book presents a thoughtful exploration of the contemporary attitudes towards gays and lesbians within the progressive bourgeoisie of Paris and New York. The concept of gay friendliness is analyzed through both the lenses of sociological acceptance and ambiguity. The book initiates by acknowledging that gay men and lesbians today exist in a space that is neither fully excluded by heterosexuals nor completely integrated into the societal framework. This distinct category of individuals remains visibly present within urban settings. The book delves into the intricate position they occupy – a position that is sometimes esteemed and actively pursued. To accomplish this, Sylvie Tissot proposes a twofold approach: firstly, an examination of how homosexuality is perceived from the perspective of heterosexual individuals; secondly, a departure from analyzing a broad spectrum of heterosexual viewpoints. Instead, the book concentrates on bourgeois heterosexuals, particularly those residing in areas recognized as gay or lesbian neighborhoods, such as Paris's Marais and New York's Park Slope. The aim is to challenge the prevailing assumption that homophobia is predominantly associated with the working class. While none of the interviewees from both cities identified themselves as homophobic – with many professing to be 'allies' – their positive attitudes towards gays and lesbians, their camaraderie at social gatherings, and their regard for them as neighbors or friends do not necessarily translate to unconditional acceptance. To dissect this phenomenon, the author employs an interview-based survey approach. Spanning the years from 2011 to 2016, a total of 39 interviews were conducted in France and 56 in the United States, involving 58 heterosexuals and 37 gays and lesbians.